are you ready to break free from unavailable men?

tell me if this is you.

this is for the woman who attracts, dates, or chases or is still in love with an unavailable man.

Sound like you? Let's keep going...I see you... you know you're meant for a deep, soul love with a man who truly sees you, supports you, and cherishes you.But you're stuck in the same patterns...you finally think you've met a good one and then 2-3 months in, you realize... oh boy. This is another unhealed man.You feel yourself tempted to try to stick it out and be patient with him.Because ugh -- you feel so damn attracted to him. Even though you know you shouldn't!What the f is going on!?

you've tried a bunch of things to break your patterns..

  • Going to talk therapy...you’re aware of your patterns and why you are the way you are...but you keep attracting the same dynamic.

  • Being more “conscious” while dating, using red flag checklists, asking the right questions, trying to analyze if he’s available or not. But now it just feels like dating is an interview.

  • Trying to choose more available guys...aka not someone just like your ex. But ugh - the available guys are just kind of...boring?!

you don't know what you're doing wrong.

these are signs that you are trying to use your conscious mind to solve a problem at the subconscious level.

You see, talk therapy, awareness of your patterns, and a logical approach to dating are a great start.

but, attraction patterns are not logical.

Attraction patterns are completely illogical. They are animalistic, instinctual desires that are based on a whole host of things - like our caretakers, our unmet needs, familiarity, perceived safety, and our narratives about love.Your subconscious is much stronger than your conscious will - and it will continue to seek our partners that match its concept of relationships, unless you intervene.

oh, and while we're talking about emotional unavailability...your relationships are always a reflection of YOU.

So until you become emotionally available to yourself, you’ll continue to attract partners who reflect your own patterns.

"Wait, I am emotionally available," you think. "I desperately desire deep intimate connection and I feel deeply."

all of that can be true - but emotional availability with yourself looks like:

  • Unconditional love and self compassion on your journey to partnership -- not saying things like "What's wrong with me?" "I keep messing up" or "I'm so awkward."

  • An ability to be with and witness tough emotions without overindugling in them, sobbing on the couch for hours

  • Staying connected to your body and experiences rather than moving into your head, trying to figure things out - googling why men pulled away, re-reading Attached, sending your girlfriends his text messages to analyze, and begrudgingly swiping on Hinge

but imagine if...

  • You were able to let that unavailable soulmate go on his own journey, sending him love from afar, releasing the pervasive thoughts of "how do I make this work with him?"

  • And rather, you were with a man who celebrated your emotions, holding non-judgmental space for your tears, anxieties, and fears. Your man didn’t shy away from tough conversations. He welcomed your feedback with receptivity, even if he couldn’t always meet your needs perfectly.

  • And while you waited for him, you embodied self compassion, peace, and love towards yourself -- celebrating what you've created for yourself so far, holding yourself when you had moments of loneliness, reminding yourself of your magic even after a guy ghosted you, and feeling so certain that the right man was going to find you.

this is what’s possible when you rewire your subconscious and nervous system for available love.

which is exactly what I guide you through in Breaking Free of Unavailable Men.

watch the intro video

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so far, we've covered:

  • Module 1: Why Healers, Empaths, and High Achievers Attract Unavailable Men (and how to rewire your subconscious narratives around love)

  • Module 2: How to Let Go of Your Unavailable Soulmate (and why it's so DAMN hard!)

  • Module 3: Why Unavailable Partners Actually Feel Good In the Body (and how to move past your fears of intimacy to allow in healthy love)

and in Weeks 4-6, we'll cover:

  • How to become more emotionally available to yourself so that you transform from self critical to self compassionate

  • How to navigate triggers in a way that releases stuck energy & allows you to move into your natural magnetism

  • How to access your intuition and body based wisdom - so you can spot an unavailable man from within (because red flag lists don’t work!)

  • ...and MORE

plus, you'll receive:

  • Six weeks of video teachings (one module dropped per week)

  • Hypnosis embodiments to rewire your subconsciou

  • A Q&A day to get your questions answered

Women are already having massive transformations..

Are you ready to shift your attraction patterns to call in the healthy, reciprocal love you deserve?

investment: $299
30% off until Sun 3/30 with the code TRANSFORM

hi, i'm liz

If you're curious why I created this course -- let me share my inspiration: I too dated, chased, and tried to heal unavailable men for all of my twenties. I was in talk therapy, yet I couldn't make a change. It wasn't until discovering the subconscious mind that things began to click for me. Fast forward to March 2023 after doing this work nearly daily, I finally met a man who was all in. This wasn't an accident - it was because I upgraded my subconscious belief systems about myself and love.I see many women stuck in these patterns - blaming their own lack of discipline as well as the dating pool. Neither are helpful. I noticed there was a gap in the marketplace where there wasn't a course that actually addressed this particular dynamic in dating in a way that got to the root and supported you to rewire your attraction patterns on a subconscious level - rather than continuing to hold onto self defeating narratives. I can't wait to hear all of the magic that this course brings you.